July 22, 2001
Dear Heartless-Bitches' Queen,
I am an 18 year old guy who came across your site [heartless-bitches.com]
via viewing another website. I entered the mainpage and examined it for a
bit. I read just the front page...and I must say that I truly do not
understand why women who perceive this world and life the way you do
perceive it that way.
Please correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems as though your members are a
group of extreme pessimist-feminists. In essence, "man-haters".
an animated GIF of a heart being chopped with an axe on the frontpage of
your site. Nice touch. What on Earth would provoke you to think in such a
way? Everything it seems, well I take that back, MOST of everything that
can be seen on the frontpage of the site is negative. It makes me really
wonder just what COULD reside in the members-only sections. Truly however,
I don't think I want to know.
You may consider this email "whining", as it appears that you consider
everything that a man has to say to you as "whining". It is not. Rather,
it is an observation and an INQUIRY as to why you guys think and behave
the way you do. Though I do not understand it, it is OK. I don't
understand women totally anyways (what man does?). However your group
seems to be of a different breed of Woman. What has hardened your souls
so? I am interested....
I am not one of those "sappy Nice Guys (tm)" that people always refer to.
I am a nice guy. However I'm not a "Nice Guy". I am confident in who I am,
my looks, my sexuality, my abilities, and the way I interact with your
sex. I know I have what it takes. I am also smart and rational/logical.
However even someone like myself has a hard time weighing your very strong
*negative* opinions, much less understanding them.
It seems to me, and I would assume to many others also, that you guys are
a bunch of gals that've been hurt by men too many times, perhaps you're
the "ugly girls" who want to lash out...but I'm not assuming anything.
If this is the case, then why would you want to make a site about pain? Why
not try to pinpoint the problem. Some guys are wicked jerks, what can I
say? Some women are HeartLess Bitches. Is there a difference between the
two? I think not. We dislike bitter women like you just the same way that
you have hatred for guys who like Big Tits, ghetto booty, and wanna sip
martinis in Cancun with Claudia Schiffer; guys who objectify women and
view them like I view a prime cut of New York Sirloin.
What I am saying is why not work for the positive? This site just breeds
hate and tension between the sexes, at an exponential rate. On the flip
side, sites like this by men do also the same thing (though I think fewer
of them exist). In this day and age that is not what we need. We need less
hate, and more love. Simple, but the absolute truth.
"a bunch of gals that've been hurt by men too many times, perhaps you're the "ugly girls" when we "out" you as the manipulative moron that very line
shows you to be?
As for posting this in all it's, oh what was it, "grammatically
challenged, poorly-spelled glory", please feel free to do so. I don't
think there are more than maybe two grammatical / spelling errors in this,
because I don't happen to be one of those "dumb guys" you so like to rag
on. In fact, feel free to; I would encourage it. And send all responses/hate
mail to [email deleted because you're spreading hate] (my real email
address - I am writing this at my brother's house).
To sum up, I would like to say that I am not trying to change either you,
the president, or your members' opinions or ideas, no matter how
irrational they seem to me. Rather I am writing as more of an inquiry to
your philosophy(s). If this letter is shot down, and you give me a whole
and hearty "Fuck Off"....that's OK. I'm half-expecting it anyways. But
just know that I don't give a flying fuck, because "Ain't nobody gonna
hold me down" :)
Christopher John [Genitals]