June 03, 2001
Subject:Some male's views and thougts.
I am not using my real identity becuase I don't feel I can trust you yet. And if you have my indentity it might make it easier for you to do your voodoo black magic against me.
It is a bit awkward for me as I don't get contact with many femanists.
To perhaps use your words I am working in a 'male donminated' industry.
I write this to just express my current feelings and probe your thoughts and reactions (at a distance).
Femanism? I am not quite sure what this but means, but I think it is about advancing women by hurting men.
I find it surprising that I am supposed to be part of this patriarchi thing that is the male system for oppressing women. This kind of goes against the grain of how I internally feel. I used to think that the purpose of men was to look-after the women with whome thay have a personal relationship.
If the man was lucky the women would be the same and life could be fantastic.
I now realise that women are only interested in men for what they can gain materially. We are of-course fools (I at-least) because having a fake relationship is better than the hell of lonleyness, there is always the hope that things may improve tomorrow.
Yes, fools we are for getting so dazzled by womens beauty, You are very lucky that you don't get these
strong sexual urges and desires that get us into so much trouble.
I think the thing is that men need women more than they need us, or perhaps that is the result of my current negative and unhappy feelings. In personal relationships it isn't the big events that hurt the most but the subtle things such the put-downs and the change in voice tone at the end of words that cut most deeply into mens soul.
Getting back to this male domination issue. Personally I don't want to take advantage of women (no?) but at the same time I don't want to be manipulated either. As all women are aware they exert tremendous sexual power over the men who are 'in-love' with them.
I had a little look at your website and found the usual man-hating stuff and decided to stop before getting further depressed. So I'll put a question to you.
You're website implies that you are a 'heartless bitch'. presumably the most anti-male women that there is.
So here's my question.
What does a man have do to gain the warmth, respect and affection from a 'heartless bitch?'.
By the way I wouldn't use the word 'bitch' for women I think it is not good manners and is offensive.
I sincerely wish that when my life is evaluated by our almighty creator that I am one of those souls who is granted mercy. I kind of like the idea of paradise has women that are so amazingly beutiful that well their smile is enought to make a red-blooded guy orgasm.
I won't anger you anymore by my very male thoughts and views. Except something which just occurred to me.
I think that the reason why certain professions are say male dominated. Could it be perhaps that men are excellent at these things and that women have yet to demonstrate worthiness or credability.
People talk about encouraging women into male dominated professions. I find that this statement is implicitly sexist against women as it implies that women need a helping hand that men don't have.
Equality? This is interesting, if everybody was treated equally then this means that the lazy people get the same rewards as the not lazy people and vice versa.
I think that allowing fair competittion is the way forward. If Femanism is what I think it is then I don't agree with it. I believe that the individual needs to have the freedome to fulfill their maximum potential. Of-course femanists will want to advance women at mens expense, and well politicians will of-course go along with it to gain the womens vote.
I think that traditionally women relied on men to do the dirty work and take care of them. Now things have changed, where the state is now taking over the responsibility of looking after women and childeren. Also the nature of the labour market has changed sufficiently to make the employment opportunities more female friendly. I.e. Service industries, call-centres, offices etc.
Well I just like to say the male experience is not so great. There is a general theme in the mass media that men
are bad women are good. Basically men are no longer needed or wanted unless it is to pay for social welfare programs. Yes men do pay much more taxes and women do consume more resources still. Perhaps this helps to explain why there is a rising suicide statistic amoung young men.
It is unfair I feel to always accuse us of being evil.
I think the real problem is women themselves.
They are just too lazy and expect men to
look after them without doing the same. We are a bit stupid for putting up
with this but I mean in the past this was our role. To look after women and the family.
I aplogise for spelling mistakes and such like. I wrote this in a hurry and am not using MS-WORD.