From: Melinda H.
Subject: My Rant
Here's my rant on the subject of penis size.
I've seen an increase in the number of whiny tirades about men with
little dicks on HBI.
Whining, as described in "the difference between whining and bitching"
means complaining about something you can actually can DO something about.
Kind of the way male chauvinist pigs strut about with a sort of
underbred pride in their own assholeness, it seems some of your members
are doing the same.
Aren't you the same people who get pissed off when
some fool assumes YOU'RE stupid because of your breast size, hair color, or even
Aren't you pissed off when people make narrow-minded, generalized
assumptions based upon your appearance?
And yet, judging by appearances is exactly what some Bitches are
doing - "I don't want any of those small men!
They simply can't satisfy me! And they're whiny, personality
disordered assholes who drive big shiny sports cars!"
Since when was a small dick some guarantee of assholishness?
Granted, some insecure men LET the fact that they don't live up to
society's ideal get to them, and because they lack the skills or the
character to overcome the stigma,
they shore up a shaky self-esteem with fancy cars and money and by
treating women badly. I can see why this isn't attractive. But is it
logical to paint a EVERY small man with the same brush?
I don't think so. I'm sure there are small men out there who tell
society and its standards to go fuck itself, and make themselves into
the best men that they can be, and have plenty of confidence in things
that matter the most - intelligence, personality and character -
society be damned.
Now some people may prefer a big dick over a small one, the way that
I'd prefer Ben and Jerry's over a plate of liver and onions - simply as
a personal preference. But why the smug, mocking attitude? Is it
because they feel so hip and clever for taking a retro,
anti-politically correct, sexist stand?
Preferring larger dicks isn't sexist. But assuming that any man with a
small dick is unacceptable, IS.
Because it reduces a man to nothing more than a dick.
What do these women do,
whip out the tape measure on the first date and measure the damn thing? "Oh, not quite six inches. Throw 'im back!"
Never mind if he's smart, funny, articulate, honest and real - if his
DICK doesn't measure up, throw him back!
This is funny,
coming from women who argue articulately and passionately against the
folly of men who see them as merely arm candy, domestic servants, or
sex objects because of their OWN gender.
Wouldn't it piss you off to be judged on one's suitability as a
romantic partner because of the size of YOUR body parts?
Can you imagine how you'd like to hear a man saying, "Hmm, tits not big
enough. Throw her back!" Or whipping out a speculum and saying, "I
just CAN'T date a woman with an overly large pussy."
I believe that happiness in relationships depends most of all on the
compatibility between personalities, as well as
the emotional health of each partner. I happen to be on the opposite
end of the penis-size spectrum - due to my body's limitations, I prefer
smaller men. The big ones HURT me.
And yet, I have had boyfriends with dicks larger than was comfortable
for me. It made having sex more complicated, but we found ways of
getting around the problems. If I had merely kicked them out of my
life based upon their dick size, I would have lost out on some
If a guy's too small, it's a lot easier in my opinion than if he's too big. He can use a dildo on her. There are
even extenders that a guy can put on his own dick to make it bigger, et
cetera. The problem is FAR from insolvable.
So why are these women complaining?
They are WHINING, not bitching, because they CAN do something about the situation.
They could deal with physical incompatibility. Or they could simply
restrict themselves to dating larger men.
But I fail to see why they consider it vital to advertise the fact. Are they seeking moral
support from others who also see a man as nothing more than his sex organs?
Are they expecting a carrot for being clever?
It takes more than pointless man-bashing (because this IS man-bashing,
not just idiot-bashing) to win my respect.
You'd be tired of reading multiple essays on how I hate liver and onions.
I feel the same way about reading all these rants about men with small dicks.
There are many more deserving targets than they.
--edited by Nataliep and Jadesyren